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PSYCHOLOGICAL
ASPECTS
In each treatment,
psycological factors play an important role during
the consultation, treatment development and evaluation,
and post treatment evaluation.
THE
PHYSICIAN :
The expectations of the patient seeking information
on penile enlargement should be determined. The
patient is expecting to find a doctor who can
explain the process in full detail in a professional
and confidential fashion.
THE PATIENT :
By listening to the patient carefully, the physician
can appreciate his goals and expectations. One
should not generalize with different patients,
since there are different reasons and personality
traits involved in the patient's objectives for
using the Andro-Penis. One would want to carefully
evaluate those personality traits which involve
insecurity, role improvement, and relationship
improvement.
As long as we identify the patients objectives
and remind him of his goals, the physician will
help mantain the patient's interest, achieving
more effective compliance during the treatment
period..
PATIENT
CLASSIFICATION ACCORDING TO MOTIVATING FACTORS:
TYPE
I :
Spoken Objectives:
Dimension.
Latent objectives:
To obtain better security in sexual relationships,
to achieve increased desirablility, to avoid rejection
and solitude, to be part of the winners circle,
and to improve pleasure given to their sexual
partner.
A prototype patient is a 40 years old individual
that for the first time in his life presents with
erectile dysfunction, one who perceives decreased
length of his penis or with diminished virility.
In this case, by explaining that tissue growth
and neo-vascularization caused by the treatment
improves not only the quality of erections but
also the length of the penis and a sense of virility,
the patient's objective(s) will be achieved.
Important emotional changes which effect the patient
are readily observable. Sometimes, however, there
may be a change in the partner's attitude, which
may present a entirely new set of issues for the
patient. Attempts to help the patient identify
these can be helpful, especially if rejection
is an issue.This patient is likely to avoid intimacy
, and has an absence of emotional or sexual relationships.
They may constantly seek superficial interactions,
in some degree, to compensate for personal frustrations
which may have originated in their youth (L. Festiger
1975)
We need to transmit confidence to the patient,
with the reassurance that his penis will grow
and that the quality of his erection will also
improve. When they perceive a penis of a larger
dimension, the patient's self esteem should also
improve. The patient will think of himself as
a better lover and feel more proud of his sexual
attributes. As a response to the phalic falacy,
he will likely see an increased sexual desire
in his partner, which can enhance foreplay and
improve positive expectations from intercourse.
All this information will be received by the patient
in the way of Feed Back . Increased confidence
and self esteem will make his sexual approach
calm and relaxed, thus automatically helping to
activate the parasympatic nervous system - a key
factor in erection.
These achievements by the patient, over time,
will improve his confidence in the emotional and
sexual aspects of his relationships As a consequence,
he will see improvement in other aspects of his
life such as social skills, goal achievement,
work, etc.
TYPE
II :
Primary Objective:
Obtain a penis of normal or average dimensions.
Secondary Objective:
Eliminate insecurity complexes, solitude and rejection.
We are talking about a patient with a smaller
than average penis, or a small penis that creates
an inferiority complex for the patient. Some of
these individuals avoid situations in which their
nudity will be exposed (dressing rooms, beaches,
sexual encounters,etc.) They present obsessive
thoughts about their nudity that are focused on
the size of their penis. Such individuals, during
their consultation, express their feelings of
being observed and perhaps made fun of due to
the small size of their penis.
This individual want to make sure that the growth
will be both in erection ( to satisfy their own
needs as well as those of their partners) and
in flaccidity (since they feel observed and criticized
by others).
At the begining, these patients are reluctant
to expect results from the treatment. Due to their
high personal motivation and after being provided
with the proper scientific information, they usually
decide to begin the treatment. They have the highest
treatment compliance index and tend to use the
device for more than 10 hours a day.
Even though they are very enthusiastic with the
treatment, if they do not see results on a short
term (1-2 months), they question the treatments
efficacy. In such instances, it is recommended
to instruct the patient that the first month is
an adaptation period and to continue the treatment
11 hrs a day for the first month and a half to
accelerate growth.
It is very important to support and to educate
the patient during the first months of treatment
to alleviate pessimistic feelings. They need to
know that in this period there is an increase
in penile girth and an improvement in erections.
This should be proof that the treatment is working
as expected.
During treatment, these individuals require a
parental-like guidance and a continued support
from the physician.
At the complition of the treatment, patients usually
express feelings of satisfaction and an improvement
in their quality of life, not just on their sexual
one.
TYPE
III :
Primary Objective :
Obtain a penis of large dimensions
Secondary objective:
They usually posses narcissistic traits with the
goals being to elicit sexual desire from their
partners and admiration by others. They believe
that with a larger penis, they will belong to
an elite group, that of the winners.
Some of the patients, have difficulty in establishing
significant personal relationships and base their
communication on sexual assets, those that make
them feel comfortable and more secure.
We are discussing a very heterogenous group, so
will we analyze the different attitudes and motivations
of the members in 4 categories.
A.- Male in a stable relationship:
those who want to obtain a larger penis to improve
on his relationship and to introduce new forms
of play that will gratify both individuals. They
seek a change in their routine. They tend to have
financial means to seek treatment.
B.- Male without a stable
relationship : those who have multiple
sexual partners. They find gratification in such
relationships. They are very proud of his physique,
of their appearance, and of their large penis
.( "Teoría Psicoanalítica de
las neurosis", Fenichel, O - 1987) .
C.- Sportsman: those
who invest a lot of time and money in their physique
and traits and who are narcissistic. They frequent
places where they can exhibit themselves (Nudist
beaches, swimming pools, dressing rooms, etc....)
since they feel very comfortable and know how
to elicit admiration by others. These patients
are very hedonistic; if they feel discomfort during
the treatment, they will usually stop.
D.- Homosexual or Gay:
these men often place a lot of importance on their
penis size. There is generally less of a need
to be convinced about the efficacy of the treatment,
but when these patients obtain 1 or 2 cm of growth
, they often abandon the program
prematurely. Compliance is encouraged. .
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